-do not feel easily threatened by others, esp. women & other masculine id'd peeps
- do not compete with other masculine peeps
- do not need to control others by judging and scrutinizing every minute action
- know when to use their voices and do so sparingly and supportively
- have a strong commitment to learning and reflexivity and are open to feedback
- are not rigid
- treat others with sacred respect for physical, mental and emotional well being
- are emotionally available and open
- seek out reciprocal and giving relationships with others
- respect others', esp. women's autonomy and agency and do not unconsensually dominate
- avoid essentializing and minimizing
- believe in building community and accountability
- are committed to working through their own trauma, not out onto others
.... feel free to add more :)
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